Although you of course identify with your name, one thing you should avoid identifying with is a number. By a number I mean, your age, the number on the scales when your weigh yourself, the number on your bank balance, the number of followers on Instagram or even your car registration number. You are not your number. Your number is changeable so don’t fall into the trap of believing you are confined to it.

The numbers you associate yourself with are just the wrappings of you. If you remove all those wrappings, at the core of you, all you are is Love. We all are, and we have all come from the same source. Love. You wouldn’t base the value of a present or gift you receive by the quality of the wrapping paper, because you know it’s just the wrapping paper and not a true reflection of the value of the gift. So why would you do that to yourself?

On The Cleopatra Effect we take a look at your numbers and see which ones we’re happy with and which ones we want to change, then using my unique formula, my 9-step process, we put a plan of action together to achieve those goals. It’s as easy as 1, 2, 3 when you know how.

Even when we achieve those goals, my advice would be, don’t get too attached to those results and make them your identity. Life is a like a game of snakes and ladders, your numbers can go up and down, your only job is to appreciate where you are and focus on where you want to go. Let the disappointing numbers you see drive you and not define you.

Nisha x