So, it’s Valentine’s Day this week, how are you feeling? Are you single and frustrated that you still haven’t found the love you’re searching for? Are you getting triggered by all the soppiness around you, asking yourself “what’s wrong with me, why can’t I have the relationship they have?” If so, you’re not alone. There are hundreds of single women just like you, many of whom I’ve coached via The Cleopatra Effect.
A common mistake they were all making prior to course was in their language. On repetition, they would be saying with a heavy heart “why not me?” and that energy and those words would be reflected back to them in more situations of lack and scarcity.
By the end of the coaching though, after working on their self-esteem, their expectations, words and tone changed from “why not me?” to “yes! why not me?” As in why wouldn’t it happen for me? I’m great and I’m worthy and deserving of true love and commitment, and by waking up each morning with that expectation synchronicities soon start to appear because their energy and expectations have changed.
For women who have been looking for love for what seems like a long time, when a man they like, does actually come around, very often they are in danger of treating them like a VIP or like a God even, ignoring red flags and lowering their expectations of how they are to be treated. A key rule is to treat everyone as an equal, we are all worthy, no one is better than us, or worse, everything and everyone is neutral.
Remember if you treat a man like a VIP, he’ll treat you like a fan, not his equal…. I always say to my clients, your goal is to find someone you’re compatible with, to keep your standards high (as in how you are let someone treat you) and to believe we live in an abundant universe, where everything you want already exists….
Remember this quote from Rumi:
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
Let me help you via The Cleopatra Effect to find and breakdown the barriers that are keeping from having the true love and commitment you truly deserve, .you’re worth it!
Nisha x